So my topic of the day is fuck buddies. We all have them and no one talks about them, like spleens. So maybe it's my job to uncover the secret sex world.
What better way to discover the inner workings of these sexual creatures with no emotional attachments, than Wikipedia.
(n) Fuck Buddy (plural) Fuck Buddies
A sex partner with whom occasionally has sex with without emotional attachment.
Well I pretty much hit the nail on the head, and also come to find when Google-ing The term, the first 3 websites are for finding one "in a town near you." Wow. Sounds more like and advertisement for a band or circus coming into town. I was even more pleased to find how accommodating they were to homosexuals as well. It's nice to see we a breaking through the barriers of prejudice.
So the whole topic got me questioning it. Is this some form of a dysfunctional relationship, or the workings of an ingenious friendship? What are the fuck buddy rules? If there is a death in the family, would you invite them to the funeral? They helped you through some hard times? And I don't mind calling people my fuck buddies, but when I think of myself referred to as it I cringe. And what is the difference between fuck buddies and friends with benefits? Conversation?
So I have made it my goal for the day to report on my findings and post back ASAP!
Bradley James
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